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Dead in the Family by Charlaine Harris

Those of you that know me, know that I do whatever it takes to not think about work. I am not always able to get out and travel and explore, because of that delightfully evil thing called money, but I can excape in a good book.

Sunday is always a big reading day for me. I pretty much read every day, but I can often find myself lost in a book on Sunday. Sunday is my super quiet lazy day and that allows me to get lost in the story. So when I was thinking about adding something new to the blog, I thought why not review a recently finished book on my current Reading List?

So today I bring you, my review on


Now let me start off by saying I loved the first few books in the series, to the point that when the show came on, I could barely contain my excitement that a book series I cherish is going to come to life on the big screen.

After season 2, I realized my dreams were destroyed. The show is horrible. I really do only watch it because of Joe Manganiello and the hopes of seeing that god like body and because of the show, I stopped reading the series. I will say had I not read the books I think I would LOVE the show. I know, walking contradiction. As the book series just ended I decided I needed to finish it because I needed to know how Ms. Harris really wanted it to end, not the way HBO wants it to end. I need to know what happens to the characters I love.

and then I read this. Spoilers ahead. You have been warned. I really was hoping my faith in the series would be renewed, which is why I am semi sad that I am giving this book a


THe fairy wars are over, and Sookie is still with Eric. I have never been a fan of Eric, I am not sure why, but he has never screamed Sookie you must be with Eric. AS Eric, was not quick to come to Sookie’s rescue I was really hoping she would kick him to the curb but nope he explained he was practically being held hostage and could not come to her aid. All is forgiven and they love each other. I also felt like Eric was a lovesick child in this book, but not the Viking who oozes power & control.

Which brings me to my next issue. Sookie is written as such a strong woman. that is one of the reasons I adored her as a character. She is a strong role model . Yet in this book she seemed whiney. Really whiney. Granted I know she was tortured and all that, but still she has been nearly killed before and still came out strong.

Ok let’s talk Bill.  I had HUGE issues with his story line.  Bill is dying from blood poisoning but doesn’t want to contact his sister? So Sookie solves the problem with an email? Come out Ms. Harris, you can write better than that!

Claude has a larger role now too. Now I must admit I love Claude. I like the direction Claude took in this book. I felt Claude has a place in the series now, and I like the development that occured.

The ending also was just Eh… It left me wanting more, which is why I will start the next book. I felt like it was this big dramatic ending, but just so so plot development up to the end.

Overall I just felt this book was lacking the usual charm of the other books… and when she mentioned Jace Everett’s Bad Things in the book, I rolled my eyes. I really hope she is not writing the story to match the TV show, cause let’s be honest if you have read the books you know the TV series is so far gone, it might as well be it’s own thing. Which is how I treat it now.

I just feel the book lost it’s charm, and I am concerned this is going to continue into the next two books.

Those are my thoughts on the book, what are yours? Did you love it? Hate it? Felt like I did? Please share!

Until Next time



The Time I thought a Horse was a statue

See here is the thing,  I really love traveling (in case you could not tell) and when I travel I throw all my inhabitions into the wind and lose complete control of my surroundings and live in the moment.

So the fact that I did not notice a real horse was not a statute but a REAL horse is sad.

Ok let me back up.

We had just arrived in Iowa, and like always I just had to stop at the Welcome Center. cause to Jen, New state equals new Welcome Center and I just had to stop. (go ahead roll your eyes)

My quick snap with my ipad from the car... Welcome to Iowa
My quick snap with my ipad from the car… Welcome to Iowa

Except this was not really a welcome center.

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It was an Amish Store. Whaaatt? there are Amish in Iowa? I really thought the Amish were mostly in the North East. Clearly I need to read up on Amish more, because I was misunderstood.

Nontheless, I went into the store and walked around. The store was next to a Maid Rite and I must admit even though it is not “technically” a Welcome Center, it is a nice place to stop and stretch your legs.

I am going out to take pictures of the statues” I told the person I arrived with.

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As I am outside snapping away, all of the sudden the HORSE MOVED.

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and let me say I not only yelped I also jumped.

and to make it worse, I say something along the lines of the statute just moved.

I was humilated.

I quickly took a couple more photos & was ready to go. I couldn’t believe I thought a horse that was soooo obviously real was a statute.
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Either way, I took this as a sign that my trip was going to be one worth remembering.

I was in the same room as Alcide…

NOTE: This post does have a season finale spoiler of last seasons true blood. You have been warned Further Disclaimer… the man was so beautiful and the lighting was not the greatest so needless to say NOT the best photos… I was semi shaking… seriously.. Keep reading for the 4-1-1

I was in the same room as Alcide….  yes ladies the beautiful man that plays Alcide… God he makes me want to watch True Blood right now on this cold, dark chilly day in October.


How did this happen you ask? Well let’s flash forward 2 weeks before San Diego con.

Like every nerd on the planet I was patiently awaiting to see what panels Nerd HQ was going to offer.

My days in the dreaded cubicle were the same, sit at my computer…ignore a phone call, get on Nerd Machine’s website, go to Nerd HQ for announcements…

Refresh… Still Nothing… Refresh again…. Still nothing… After about 145,854 times of checking the website, finally the panels were listed.

When all of the sudden I gasped very loudly, to the point one of my co-workers asked if I was ok…

I squeak “Joe Manganiello is going to have a panel at Nerd HQ”. (For the record, my co-worker, said that was something worth squealing about and she wanted to know what his butt feels like… yes Sheena, we all do)

I quickly stop everything I am doing told the attorney I had a computer glitch and I was going to have to call him back (this is Alcide we are talking about here) and called my mother, and nearly had an all out nerd panick attack. ‘OMG OMG Mom we have to go, you want to go right?” . Umm duh, of course she did!

So when it came time to get the tickets, I rubbed my hands together, signed on, snagged the tickets, get to the check out and then BAM the tickets disappear… I freak out, tweet Nerd HQ a million tweets freaking out. Go back to get tickets again and received a message that the event sold out.

What? No this can’t be? This is a joke? They had a glitch… NO!!!!!!! I am going to try again… just in case

So after about 20 minutes of pretty much an all out nerd breakdown, I tried again. I am glad I did, because I snagged two tickets. Mom and I were going to be up close with Alcide himself.

Then came the waiting game…

See here is the thing.  I think he is the hottest thing going in Hollywood right now (him and Chris Hemsworth!) he has the body of a god, a killer smile, and based on his education, I am willing to bet every dime in my checking account he is highly intelligent, Carnegie Mellon University is no joke.

In fact, the only reason I watch the train wreck that is True Blood is for him. True Story, ask Ashley Nemer.

FINALLY it was time for SDCC, and finally I was going to be in the same room as one of my top five hottest male actors (at Nerd HQ nontheless, home to another one of my top 5 Zachary Levi).

Don’t worry I don’t have my thoughts on Joe twisted, I know this post is coming across borderline obsessive, but come on guys, he is HOT!

Mom & I enter the room and much to my surprise Alan Tudyk was moderating.  I love Firefly, Dollhouse and Serenity, so I of course was nerding out about him too.

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The panel was hilarious, those who say men are the perverted got it all wrong. Women are insane, when they get in a room with a hot guy, and told to ask away. These women did not hold back when it came to questions.

When is the next time you will get naked on True Blood? was pretty much the first question asked.

We would also find out what his costume is when he does nude scenes.


I gotta give it to Joe, he held it together.  He told us he would get naked one more time on the show….. SPOILER ALERT if you have not finished True Blood’s last season go to the next paragraph!!!! He totally gets it on With Sookie *screams with glee* cause that means way more nakedness next season ***END SPOILER***

He told us he has a she-wolf in real life.  He even teased us that he was going to take his shirt off, but then just put the shirt he received over the one he was wearing… Ugh.. Jerk.  Hot men should NOT be allowed to tease  like that! Seriously!  THANK GOD I OWN MAGIC MIKE!!!!

Trust me ladies I snapped AWAY hoping to get photos of that god like body he has…

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Honestly I was too busy snapping pictures of him, I didn’t catch everything he said.  I was texting Ashley during the event, and Ashley wanted me to ask if that was his ummm thing in Magic Mike…

In case you were wondering, I didn’t ask. So we still don’t know.
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 In fact I was trying so hard to not hyperventilate, my pictures were not turning out…  Mom kept having to tell me to calm down and I didn’t even speak to the guy…

Then to top this all off Zachary Levi dashed out quickly at the end of the panel, ladies I am not kidding, I felt like I was in Heaven.

Then Joe tosses stickers to the crowd which signaled the panel was over.

Now if I can just meet the man. Seriously.

Until Next Time.

PS I totally still have the sticker, It is pinned on my board over my bed, it is the first thing I see every morning. I know twisted 😉


PSS Joe (Yes I feel like I know you after going to the panel) I PROMISE I am totally a normal girl if we ever meet. lol


For the blog hop, I decided to talk about something very personal, my regrets.

Truth is I love things that go bump in the night… vampires are sexy, if the werewolf looks like Alcide, he can do whatever he pleases, Loki’s have to be the hottest thing in Hades… These things do not keep me up at night.

Regrets keep me up at night.

My life lately has been a mess. I feel lost, unorganized and I feel as I am just going through the motions.  Somedays I feel as I am existing and not living.

I am not sure if it is because I have a birthday coming up, or if it is because September was one of the hardest months I have had in a very long time. Whatever the reason, I feel as life is passing by and I am wasting any talents and moments given to me.

Truth is September hit me hard.

I had to let Sable go. I loved that dog so much, and yes while she was only a dog, she meant a lot to me. Even right now as I am thinking about her greeting me at the door every single day, I am tearing up. Because of Sable’s passing I found myself having regrets.


I should have walked her more, I should have took her outside more… I should have rubbed her ears more…

At the same time Sable was dying, I found out I needed a major medical procedure, one that cost a lot of money.

Money I didn’t have.

As I was laying in bed crunching numbers I had another set of regrets coming my way… I don’t save enough, I should have taken better care of myself… I should man up and ask for that raise… again. Honestly, I should find another job….

More regrets.

I found out one of my friends died. I have not spoken much about this, because this was something that hit me very hard… and because it forced me to realize all the decisions I have made for others, and once again regrets. When someone your age dies, it makes you realize you are not guaranteed tomorrow. So you should live every day like your last… but as I laid in bed that night what did I think of?

Regrets. Regrets. Regrets

I should have called more, I should have visited more…. I should stop planning trips and go on trips… I should go back to school…

Truth is, in 3 days I will turn 31. Most people at my age have lived a pretty solid life, they have houses, kids, the white picket fence… and if they don’t, they have something to show for it… a passport filled with stamps, a stellar 401k…

I lack all of that. Sure I have a job (that I hate) and amazing family but I lack something.

As I was thinking about what is lacking, a lightbulb went off and I realized I lack follow through. I intend on doing something, will plan it and then stop short of accomplishing it.

Now I know myself, and I know that I often will worry about the bad (my nickname is stormy little rain cloud for a very good reason) so it is time to wake up and realize I control my destiny.

The only one that can force regrets on myself is me. I am the reason I have regrets not others.

So I decided that when I turn 40. I may still have regrets (I am human) but I will have learned to follow through and do what I want in life.

It is time to take control of my destiny.

So how am I going to do this you ask?

Starting in October… every month I am going to pick something I have always wanted to do and do it… whether it is a project, a trip or learning how to write the numbers 1-10 in Mandarin. I am going to do something. As I am a blogger and love my little space in cyberspace I am of course going to share these experiences with the world. I am going to call the series, living life without regret 🙂

This month was about admitting my regrets & issue with following through and OH I am going to figure out how to string that damn sewing machine!!!

Now it is time to do something about it.

What are your regrets? How do you live life without regret??